I heard the faint cry last night around 10:30 pm.
"mommy"
I bolted upstairs.
I knew.
She slightly resembled Linda Blair.
Only no head spinning.
Cleaning and rearranging for the night ensued.
This morning.
No warning.
He was just a pathetic little man sitting in a mess.
I almost joined the club as I cleaned up that time.
Safe now.
On a pallet of well-covered furniture and a trash can near by.
Cartoons.
The whirring and tumbling sounds float from under the door of my laundry room.
I need a nap!
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Today, my friend Andrea is having surgery to remove lymph nodes and have them tested for cancer. On October 29th, she will have a double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery for a cancer that is currently contained. She is a mom of young kids. She is not giving "chance" an opportunity.
She is brave. She is strong. She is faithful. She has a strong and supportive network where she lives, including her family.
As you find a moment during your prayers or quiet time, please remember her. Today and in the next few weeks.
Stacey
Showing posts with label breast cancer. Show all posts
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Thursday, October 9, 2008
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
And my PINK winners are.............
You are gonna love this.............
Kelli
and......
Kelli
Seriously!
It wasn't hard since they were the only two who played along (boo hoo!), BUT i am really glad it was them! One is local so this might actually mean we could meet in person-yea! The other is coming my way very soon, so another real life encounter possibility!
You gals are getting a cute mini pink cutting board with a pink-handled paring knife. AND some surprise goody from my Arbonne stash!
And, of course, my eternal thanks for supporting a wonderful cause!
To put a face to a name and learn a little about my friend Sonya, please go here for a recent news story by her friend Kirsten.
And continue to pray for her precious family!
Are you new around here and want to know more about why I did this? Go here and here and here for the story behind today's winners.
And there is still time to join the fun, so don't forget to go to www.galtogalwalk.org to support this cause and learn about this incredible foundation that supports women and their families diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer, as well as much needed research.
Stacey
Kelli
and......
Kelli
Seriously!
It wasn't hard since they were the only two who played along (boo hoo!), BUT i am really glad it was them! One is local so this might actually mean we could meet in person-yea! The other is coming my way very soon, so another real life encounter possibility!
You gals are getting a cute mini pink cutting board with a pink-handled paring knife. AND some surprise goody from my Arbonne stash!
And, of course, my eternal thanks for supporting a wonderful cause!
To put a face to a name and learn a little about my friend Sonya, please go here for a recent news story by her friend Kirsten.
And continue to pray for her precious family!
Are you new around here and want to know more about why I did this? Go here and here and here for the story behind today's winners.
And there is still time to join the fun, so don't forget to go to www.galtogalwalk.org to support this cause and learn about this incredible foundation that supports women and their families diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer, as well as much needed research.
Stacey
Monday, October 1, 2007
Count the ways in 31 days!
There are so many ways to help those dealing with breast cancer. I am only mentioning a few today to kick off Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Feel free to make other suggestions for me to use in post updates throughout the month!
I love this one where you simply click everyday and help women receive free mammograms!
Several at work will be participating in the Race for the Cure. I had done it several times about 6 years ago with my friend Judy! I will miss again this year, but am registering for the event anyway. Apparently, I am what they call a "sleep walker"! Cute, huh!
And of course, I am participating in the Virtual Walk for the Gal To Gal Foundation which supports those diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer. It is so neat because you can type in someone's first name, last initial, and their city/state and voila', you can find your friends that are walking too!!
Now best of all!
I recently discovered that I have 2 pink bar boards with pink-handled paring knives that I ordered from Pampered Chef several years ago. That is what happens when you clean and purge!! I think I had purchased 5 at the time to use as gifts because I knew some of the proceeds were donated.
Want to win one? :)
Here is what you need to do:
1. Go register and design "you" at www.galtogalwalk.org. The cost is $3.
2. Either post about it and link others there as well OR email 3 other people about it with the link if you don't have a blog.
3. Come back to this post and leave me a comment. Either link me to your post about signing up OR tell me the first names of the 3 people you emailed.
(Ya'll, I would so love to do a Mr. Linky here, but seriously, does it have to be that complicated! My eyes were glazed over while reading the first sentence of instructions!)
On October 31st, I will randomly draw 2 winners for these cute pink sets!! Who knows, I may also throw in some Luxurious Holiday yummies just cuz ya'll are so generous!
And just for fun, I am going to wear a cute pink bracelet everyday in October! I may have to raid Anysa's jewelry until I can make it to the store!!
Stacey
I love this one where you simply click everyday and help women receive free mammograms!
Several at work will be participating in the Race for the Cure. I had done it several times about 6 years ago with my friend Judy! I will miss again this year, but am registering for the event anyway. Apparently, I am what they call a "sleep walker"! Cute, huh!
And of course, I am participating in the Virtual Walk for the Gal To Gal Foundation which supports those diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer. It is so neat because you can type in someone's first name, last initial, and their city/state and voila', you can find your friends that are walking too!!
Now best of all!
I recently discovered that I have 2 pink bar boards with pink-handled paring knives that I ordered from Pampered Chef several years ago. That is what happens when you clean and purge!! I think I had purchased 5 at the time to use as gifts because I knew some of the proceeds were donated.
Want to win one? :)
Here is what you need to do:
1. Go register and design "you" at www.galtogalwalk.org. The cost is $3.
2. Either post about it and link others there as well OR email 3 other people about it with the link if you don't have a blog.
3. Come back to this post and leave me a comment. Either link me to your post about signing up OR tell me the first names of the 3 people you emailed.
(Ya'll, I would so love to do a Mr. Linky here, but seriously, does it have to be that complicated! My eyes were glazed over while reading the first sentence of instructions!)
On October 31st, I will randomly draw 2 winners for these cute pink sets!! Who knows, I may also throw in some Luxurious Holiday yummies just cuz ya'll are so generous!
And just for fun, I am going to wear a cute pink bracelet everyday in October! I may have to raid Anysa's jewelry until I can make it to the store!!
Stacey
Monday, September 24, 2007
Walk it Girl!
Many of you remember that I lost a friend on September 2nd.
We lost. She won.
I know she now battles for us along side our Savior in a glorious place.
I keep saying I lost a friend, but truly many lost that day.
Her name is Sonya. She was petite with gorgeous curly black hair, porcelain skin, and was never without her ruby red lips! She always had an incredible Godly spirit, a hug and a smile for you, and an encouraging word to say. And I always remember her being witty, making us laugh. I knew her because we went to college together and I became a member of the same social-service club as she. And even better, she was my pledge mom the semester I came along.
I remember when she married her husband and when she brought her first sweet baby to a homecoming reunion. Like many friendships we cultivate early on, ours was not one that had us in contact as often as we would have liked. But, we were always connected. The many times we did talk on the phone, email, or visit in person were maybe more special that way. We stayed in touch over the years; phone calls, emails, lunch a few times, always a sweet Christmas card where I watched her precious family grow over the years. Those 3 girls are a picture of their mom and she had a very handsome boy as well!
My last physical memory of Sonya was the summer our babes were born. Her last, another sweet girl, and my Luke. They were a month apart. Sonya and I lived about 45 minutes away from each other. A fact that actually makes me feel ill knowing all the times we shoulda, woulda, coulda. But I have to let that guilt go, mostly because I know she would want me to. I took the kids that day and all of us had a wonderful visit. I will cherish the memory of that last time.
The next September, I had to call her. Our friend, Kevin, was not doing well. I knew she would want to know and would pray for him and his family. We lost Kevin 2 years ago this month. Sonya received her diagnosis the next month, October 2005. I did not learn of it until she sent a Christmas card; another beautiful portrait of her family. And the letter. The one that made me cry. She had been diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer. But true to Sonya's character, her letter was hopeful for herself and glorifying for God. She was already receiving treatments with good results and although the diagnosis was "daunting", she was faithful. And she wanted us to be faithful as well.
I told everyone I knew that would want to know, I passed along her contact information so she would have support from many that knew and loved her. And I sent her several emails.
Stupid emails!
I did not call her. I did not go see her.
The shame and guilt of that is immense for me. So much, that I have never spoken it out loud before today. I was scared to know. I was in denial that I could lose another friend. And then, life seemed to take up my time. I was in constant prayer for her, but no personal contact. It makes me feel like a failure as her friend. I know she does not want me to feel like that, but right now I do.
I think part of the reason these feelings of guilt so overtake me at times is that it was almost the same with Kevin. Although Kevin and I did keep in contact more with emails and phone calls, I did not physically see him during his battle. Until the end. Yes, we did live significantly farther away than Sonya and I, but still. I did get to share some time with Kevin, his family, and our friends in the hospital the week before he left to be with God. I am thankful I got to see him, touch him, speak to him, love him one last time here on earth.
Today, I share all that with you so that I can put a real story behind real causes. Many of you likely have causes that are dear to your heart and that you support already. Thank you for that! Below you will read about one foundation I have chosen to support. I found Design-Her Gals by what may seem like an accident, blog surfing, but I know it was a purpose-filled discovery. It is a cute site where you can create a "virtual" you and use that design for all kinds of stationary or on your Internet correspondence. I had so much fun last week creating 6 different me's! Finding that website meant finding the Gal to Gal Foundation and their Gals With A Cause virtual walk across America to fund research, treatment, and support of those diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer and their families. Not only am I participating (it cost $3 to create "you" and participate in the virtual walk), but in October, I am donating 20% of my Arbonne income to the Gal to Gal Foundation in honor of Sonya. This month, I am donating 10% to another cancer foundation in honor of Kevin.
Please read an excerpt from the website, and then if you would like to, go sign up to "walk" here.
I would love to hear from everyone who decides to do this!!
Thank you for your continued prayers for Sonya's family and for the many others that are fighting battles of all kind!
At the funeral home, many of Sonya's prayer warriors wore pink shirts with "to God be the glory" across the back. I smiled because I know that is what she believed and held steadfast to.
I agree.
Stacey
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GALS WITH A CAUSE
Join Design-her Gals on October 1st as we make "virtual" history as we launch the first virtual walk across America to raise funds for Stage IV breast cancer patients for the Gal to Gal Foundation. Your Gal will walk from Boston to San Francisco and stop in 29 other cities along the way ~ no training necessary! For info and to spread the word, CLICK HERE.
STAGE IV BREAST CANCER
Definition:
Cancer has spread to other organs of the body, most often the bones, lungs, liver, or brain.
The formation of the Gal to Gal Foundation was inspired by 2 special women in our lives. Robin Bloksberg, who passed away 6 years ago at the age of 45, and Janis Armstrong, who passed away on December 16th, 2005, after bravely enduring a 12-year battle with breast cancer. Diagnosed with Stage IV metastasized cancer in October of 2004, she spent the remainder of her life teaching us about the power and faith of friendship. Her openness about her process enabled us to witness firsthand the challenges and opportunities of a life altering disease. She helped craft the mission statement for the foundation and articulated the needs, desires and dreams of women facing Stage IV cancer.
The Gal to Gal Foundation believes that women diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer deserve a great amount of support in order to maintain their dignity while receiving treatment throughout the progression of their disease. Over 300,000 patients worldwide will lose their lives to Stage IV Breast Cancer this year. The Gal to Gal Foundation identifies, partners with, and provides funding to existing organizations dedicated to the emotional and financial well-being of Stage IV Breast Cancer survivors.
Our research shows that although there are many wonderful organizations supporting breast cancer research, prevention and treatment for early stages - minimal dollars are being dedicated to Stage IV needs. The reality is, until breast cancer is extinguished in all its forms, there will be those who do not respond to the treatments that are currently available.
As our Chairperson Carrie Dederich puts it, "Cancer is an equal opportunity destroyer. No matter your age, race, economic or educational status, cancer can strike at any time." 10% of all women diagnosed with breast cancer for the first time will learn that their cancer has already metastasized. "The disease permeates family structure and alters forever the complexion of our homes and communities. It taxes our physical, emotional and spiritual strength. It must be stopped.
The Gal to Gal Foundation is forging a global community of caring, intelligent women who want to make a positive difference in the lives of others. We encourage you to join us in our commitment. Our goal is to raise $1 million dollars over the next 3 years. With your help this can be done. A portion of every purchase you make on Design-her Gals goes to the Gal to Gal Foundation and you can also give a direct donation on line. Simply CLICK HERE.
The Foundation has chosen to dedicate its monies in the 2006-2007 year in two important areas:
* to assist in the establishment of a comprehensive “one stop" dedicated web site for patients with metastasized cancer. We understand how this project could make a real difference for patients seeking immediate information and resources.
* and to Making Memories, an organization dedicated to granting wishes for Stage IV patients and their families
The Gal to Gal Foundation is a Non-Profit corporation, meaning donations are tax deductible.
Checks may be written to:
The Gal to Gal Foundation
777 Wall Street
Suite 203-B
Bend, OR 97701
or DONATE ONLINE.
For more information on Stage IV, we recommend: "Advanced Breast Cancer - A Guide to Living With Metastatic Disease" by Musa Mayer. O'Reilly, 1998.
We lost. She won.
I know she now battles for us along side our Savior in a glorious place.
I keep saying I lost a friend, but truly many lost that day.
Her name is Sonya. She was petite with gorgeous curly black hair, porcelain skin, and was never without her ruby red lips! She always had an incredible Godly spirit, a hug and a smile for you, and an encouraging word to say. And I always remember her being witty, making us laugh. I knew her because we went to college together and I became a member of the same social-service club as she. And even better, she was my pledge mom the semester I came along.
I remember when she married her husband and when she brought her first sweet baby to a homecoming reunion. Like many friendships we cultivate early on, ours was not one that had us in contact as often as we would have liked. But, we were always connected. The many times we did talk on the phone, email, or visit in person were maybe more special that way. We stayed in touch over the years; phone calls, emails, lunch a few times, always a sweet Christmas card where I watched her precious family grow over the years. Those 3 girls are a picture of their mom and she had a very handsome boy as well!
My last physical memory of Sonya was the summer our babes were born. Her last, another sweet girl, and my Luke. They were a month apart. Sonya and I lived about 45 minutes away from each other. A fact that actually makes me feel ill knowing all the times we shoulda, woulda, coulda. But I have to let that guilt go, mostly because I know she would want me to. I took the kids that day and all of us had a wonderful visit. I will cherish the memory of that last time.
The next September, I had to call her. Our friend, Kevin, was not doing well. I knew she would want to know and would pray for him and his family. We lost Kevin 2 years ago this month. Sonya received her diagnosis the next month, October 2005. I did not learn of it until she sent a Christmas card; another beautiful portrait of her family. And the letter. The one that made me cry. She had been diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer. But true to Sonya's character, her letter was hopeful for herself and glorifying for God. She was already receiving treatments with good results and although the diagnosis was "daunting", she was faithful. And she wanted us to be faithful as well.
I told everyone I knew that would want to know, I passed along her contact information so she would have support from many that knew and loved her. And I sent her several emails.
Stupid emails!
I did not call her. I did not go see her.
The shame and guilt of that is immense for me. So much, that I have never spoken it out loud before today. I was scared to know. I was in denial that I could lose another friend. And then, life seemed to take up my time. I was in constant prayer for her, but no personal contact. It makes me feel like a failure as her friend. I know she does not want me to feel like that, but right now I do.
I think part of the reason these feelings of guilt so overtake me at times is that it was almost the same with Kevin. Although Kevin and I did keep in contact more with emails and phone calls, I did not physically see him during his battle. Until the end. Yes, we did live significantly farther away than Sonya and I, but still. I did get to share some time with Kevin, his family, and our friends in the hospital the week before he left to be with God. I am thankful I got to see him, touch him, speak to him, love him one last time here on earth.
Today, I share all that with you so that I can put a real story behind real causes. Many of you likely have causes that are dear to your heart and that you support already. Thank you for that! Below you will read about one foundation I have chosen to support. I found Design-Her Gals by what may seem like an accident, blog surfing, but I know it was a purpose-filled discovery. It is a cute site where you can create a "virtual" you and use that design for all kinds of stationary or on your Internet correspondence. I had so much fun last week creating 6 different me's! Finding that website meant finding the Gal to Gal Foundation and their Gals With A Cause virtual walk across America to fund research, treatment, and support of those diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer and their families. Not only am I participating (it cost $3 to create "you" and participate in the virtual walk), but in October, I am donating 20% of my Arbonne income to the Gal to Gal Foundation in honor of Sonya. This month, I am donating 10% to another cancer foundation in honor of Kevin.
Please read an excerpt from the website, and then if you would like to, go sign up to "walk" here.
I would love to hear from everyone who decides to do this!!
Thank you for your continued prayers for Sonya's family and for the many others that are fighting battles of all kind!
At the funeral home, many of Sonya's prayer warriors wore pink shirts with "to God be the glory" across the back. I smiled because I know that is what she believed and held steadfast to.
I agree.
Stacey
************************************************************************
GALS WITH A CAUSE
Join Design-her Gals on October 1st as we make "virtual" history as we launch the first virtual walk across America to raise funds for Stage IV breast cancer patients for the Gal to Gal Foundation. Your Gal will walk from Boston to San Francisco and stop in 29 other cities along the way ~ no training necessary! For info and to spread the word, CLICK HERE.
STAGE IV BREAST CANCER
Definition:
Cancer has spread to other organs of the body, most often the bones, lungs, liver, or brain.
The formation of the Gal to Gal Foundation was inspired by 2 special women in our lives. Robin Bloksberg, who passed away 6 years ago at the age of 45, and Janis Armstrong, who passed away on December 16th, 2005, after bravely enduring a 12-year battle with breast cancer. Diagnosed with Stage IV metastasized cancer in October of 2004, she spent the remainder of her life teaching us about the power and faith of friendship. Her openness about her process enabled us to witness firsthand the challenges and opportunities of a life altering disease. She helped craft the mission statement for the foundation and articulated the needs, desires and dreams of women facing Stage IV cancer.
The Gal to Gal Foundation believes that women diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer deserve a great amount of support in order to maintain their dignity while receiving treatment throughout the progression of their disease. Over 300,000 patients worldwide will lose their lives to Stage IV Breast Cancer this year. The Gal to Gal Foundation identifies, partners with, and provides funding to existing organizations dedicated to the emotional and financial well-being of Stage IV Breast Cancer survivors.
Our research shows that although there are many wonderful organizations supporting breast cancer research, prevention and treatment for early stages - minimal dollars are being dedicated to Stage IV needs. The reality is, until breast cancer is extinguished in all its forms, there will be those who do not respond to the treatments that are currently available.
As our Chairperson Carrie Dederich puts it, "Cancer is an equal opportunity destroyer. No matter your age, race, economic or educational status, cancer can strike at any time." 10% of all women diagnosed with breast cancer for the first time will learn that their cancer has already metastasized. "The disease permeates family structure and alters forever the complexion of our homes and communities. It taxes our physical, emotional and spiritual strength. It must be stopped.
The Gal to Gal Foundation is forging a global community of caring, intelligent women who want to make a positive difference in the lives of others. We encourage you to join us in our commitment. Our goal is to raise $1 million dollars over the next 3 years. With your help this can be done. A portion of every purchase you make on Design-her Gals goes to the Gal to Gal Foundation and you can also give a direct donation on line. Simply CLICK HERE.
The Foundation has chosen to dedicate its monies in the 2006-2007 year in two important areas:
* to assist in the establishment of a comprehensive “one stop" dedicated web site for patients with metastasized cancer. We understand how this project could make a real difference for patients seeking immediate information and resources.
* and to Making Memories, an organization dedicated to granting wishes for Stage IV patients and their families
The Gal to Gal Foundation is a Non-Profit corporation, meaning donations are tax deductible.
Checks may be written to:
The Gal to Gal Foundation
777 Wall Street
Suite 203-B
Bend, OR 97701
or DONATE ONLINE.
For more information on Stage IV, we recommend: "Advanced Breast Cancer - A Guide to Living With Metastatic Disease" by Musa Mayer. O'Reilly, 1998.
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